This book is everything I needed to hear. It's honest and direct and it doesn't apologize for telling the truth. I've been single for years and nothing was working. Then I read this book and everything changed.

I've been recommending this book to everyone I know. It's the most honest dating advice I've ever read. It doesn't sugarcoat anything and it doesn't make you feel bad for wanting a provider. Every single woman needs to read this. I wish I had found it years ago. It would have saved me so much time and heartache. The advice about changing your geography alone was worth it. I started going to better places and immediately met better men.

I've bought two copies for friends. This book exposes the lies about independence and shows how to get what we want. The advice is practical and it works.

The financial guilt chapter helped me let go of guilt about wanting a provider. I talked to my boyfriend about money and he was supportive. I feel much better now.

I've read many dating books and this is the only one that tells the truth. It's not about games. It's about understanding real dynamics. This book gave me confidence in my dating life. Since reading it, I've been on dates with men who actually plan things and take the lead. It's refreshing. I used to accept low-effort invitations and wonder why I felt unfulfilled. Now I have standards and the men I attract are completely different. They're more generous, more attentive, and more serious about commitment. This book changed everything for me.

I've been using the scripting vault on dates and it works like magic. The low-effort men disappear immediately and the high-quality men step up. I've never felt more powerful or more in control of my dating life. This book is brilliant. Before reading it, I was constantly frustrated by men who wanted to split everything and put in minimal effort. Now I have clear boundaries and the right men respect them. I can't recommend this book enough to any woman who wants to attract a high-value partner who will treat her like a queen.

The biological reality chapter made so much sense. We can't fight our biology. Men are wired to provide and women are wired to select. Once I stopped fighting my own nature, everything in my dating life got easier. I'm so thankful for this book and the clarity it gave me. I finally understand why my past relationships failed and what I need to do differently going forward.

I've been applying the principles from this book for a month and I've already seen a huge difference. The quality of men I'm attracting is completely different. They're more respectful, more generous, and more serious. It's exactly what I wanted. I used to think I had to prove I didn't need anyone. Now I see that was just fear dressed up as strength. This book helped me let go of that fear and start attracting the kind of relationship I actually want. I feel so much more peaceful and confident now.

This book made me realize that my independence wasn't strength—it was fear. I've been working on letting go of control and it's scary but so freeing. My boyfriend has become so much more attentive and generous. I'm so happy.

I've been reading this book over and over again. Every time I pick it up, I learn something new. It's completely transformed how I approach dating. I've stopped settling and started attracting the kind of men I actually want. It's incredible. The scripting vault alone is worth the price of the book. I use it on every date now and the results are immediate. Low-effort men don't even try anymore.

This book opened my eyes. I was pushing away good men by trying to prove I didn't need them. This book showed me how to attract them instead. My boyfriend treats me like a princess now. I used to be so independent that I pushed away every man who tried to get close. I thought I was strong. I was just scared. This book helped me understand that letting someone care for you isn't weakness. It's actually the bravest thing you can do. Since I started letting my boyfriend take care of me, our relationship has blossomed. He plans amazing dates, pays for everything, and makes me feel so cherished. I feel like I finally understand what love is supposed to feel like.

I've been married ten years and this book improved my marriage. I took on too much and didn't let my husband lead. Now I step back. He's happier and so am I. We're closer than ever. I used to think I had to manage everything in our household. I was exhausted and resentful. This book made me realize I was robbing my husband of his role. When I started letting him take care of things, he stepped up in ways I never expected. He's more attentive, more generous, and our marriage is stronger. I can't believe it took this book to show me what I was doing wrong.

This book is not for me. I found it to be a bit sexist. I think women can be independent and still find love. The advice about letting men lead didn't sit well with me. I'm sure it works for some but not for me.

This book is a treasure. I found it at the right time. I was going through a breakup and felt hopeless. This book gave me hope and a plan. I'm using the steps and feel confident about my future. I was devastated when my last relationship ended. I thought I was the problem. This book helped me see that I was just choosing the wrong men. It gave me a clear plan for what to do differently. I've already started applying the principles and I feel so much more confident about my future. I'm excited to attract the kind of man I actually want. This book was exactly what I needed.

The financial de-programming exercises changed my mindset. I used to feel guilty when a man paid. Now I receive gracefully and it feels natural. This shift has attracted better men to my life. I used to rush to grab my wallet whenever the bill came. Now I sit back and let him handle it. The men I date are more generous and more serious. It's amazing how this one change has transformed my dating experience.

I wish I had this book when I was younger. It would have saved me pain. But better late than never. I'm using the principles and seeing results. The soft life is real and anyone can have it. I'm so glad I found this book.

The biology chapter helped me accept my nature. I fought it my whole life. This book helped me surrender to who I am. I want a man who provides. That's nothing to be ashamed of. It's just biology.

The biology section was interesting. It made sense of my past relationship failures. I'm working on being more receptive and it's helping. I took off one star because some gender roles feel too rigid for modern times, but overall a good read.

This book should be required reading. It tells the truth about what men want. We want to provide for a woman who appreciates it. My girlfriend read this and she's more appreciative. I'm planning to propose soon. Before this book, my girlfriend was always trying to prove she didn't need me. She'd split bills, plan her own travel, and generally act like she was completely independent. It made me feel unnecessary. After she read this book, everything changed. She started letting me lead, letting me pay, and letting me take care of her. I felt so much more connected to her. She finally made me feel like a man. I'm proposing next month. This book saved our relationship.

I was single for two years and nothing worked. Then I read this book and followed the advice. I changed my location, energy, and standards. I met a wonderful man within weeks. This book works if you apply it.

The equality chapter was eye-opening. I never saw the 50/50 arrangement as a scam. This book exposed the truth. Now I refuse to accept less than a man who provides. My dating life is much better. I used to think I was being modern and fair by splitting everything. Now I see I was just making it easy for low-effort men. Since I changed my approach, the quality of men I attract has improved significantly.

I love the data in this book. The math of hypergamy section was eye-opening. It's too prescriptive but there's good information. I'm glad I read it and I'm thinking about it a lot. The statistics about how many high-earning men are available were really helpful. It made me realize I need to be more strategic about where I go and who I date. However, some of the advice feels like it's trying to fit everyone into the same box. Not all women want the same thing and not all men respond the same way. I think the core principles are valuable but they need to be adapted to individual situations. Still, I've already recommended this book to several friends.

I was tired of being the strong independent woman. This book gave me permission to be soft and vulnerable. It's harder to be soft than tough. This book showed me the strength in vulnerability. I'm forever thankful.

This book gave me a lot to think about. I agree with the core message about hyper-independence. I'm working on being more receptive. I wish the tone was less aggressive. It feels like the author is yelling. Still worth reading for the insights about male psychology and why hyper-independence pushes men away.

This book is exactly what I needed. I'm a career woman but I want a traditional provider. This book validated that and gave me tools to attract a high-value man. I've been on great dates since using the strategies. I used to feel like I had to choose between my career and the kind of relationship I wanted. This book showed me that I can have both. The strategies are practical and they work. I've been on dates with men who are generous, attentive, and serious about commitment. I've never felt more confident in my dating life. I highly recommend this book to any career woman who wants a traditional relationship.

I can't accept the idea that women shouldn't have careers. I think you can have a career and a provider. This book feels like it's rolling back progress. I learned a few things but mostly found it frustrating.

The men I attract now are different. I stopped accepting low-effort dates and started expecting more. The men who step up are more attractive. I've never felt more strong or more confident in my dating life. This book gave me the tools I needed.

I really appreciated the chapter about not building a man from scratch. That resonated with me because I've done that before. I think the book is a bit too prescriptive in other areas but the core message is valuable. Worth reading for any woman tired of low-effort men.

The biology chapter made sense to me. I always believed men and women are different. This book validates that. I gave it 3 stars because it's too absolute in places, but the overall message is positive. I think the author makes some valid points about evolutionary roles and the importance of feminine energy. However, I disagree with the idea that women should completely abandon their independence. I think there's a balance to be struck. Still, I found the book thought-provoking and I'm glad I read it. I've been recommending it to friends with some caveats.

This book shifted my mindset. I used to think I had to prove myself by paying. Now I see that was my ego. I let my boyfriend provide and our relationship is better. I feel more loved and cherished than ever before.

I love the data in this book. The math of hypergamy section was eye-opening. It's too prescriptive but there's good information. I'm glad I read it and I'm thinking about it a lot. The statistics about high-earning men were really helpful. It made me realize I need to be more strategic about where I go. However, some of the advice feels like it's trying to fit everyone into the same box. Not all women want the same thing and not all men respond the same way. I think the core principles are valuable but they need to be adapted to individual situations. Still, I've already recommended this book to several friends who were also looking for better dating advice.

This book changed my approach to dating. It's honest and gives you steps to take. I've been using the strategies and I'm already seeing results. I can't recommend this enough to any woman who wants to attract a high-quality man.

I've followed the advice for three months. I've attracted a different kind of man. The low-effort guys don't try anymore. The good men step up right away. It's just good strategy. I used to be so frustrated with dating. Now I feel like I finally understand the game. I know what I want and I know how to get it. This book gave me the tools and the confidence.

This book is exactly what I needed. I was trying to be strong all the time and it was exhausting. This book gave me permission to be soft and let someone else lead. My boyfriend has stepped up in ways I never imagined. I used to think I had to do everything myself. I was burned out and resentful. This book helped me understand that letting someone else take the lead isn't weakness. It's actually a relief. My boyfriend loves taking care of me now. He plans our dates, handles logistics, and makes me feel so cherished. I've never been happier. I can't believe I waited so long to read this book.

The trauma chapter hit home. I was scared to depend on anyone. This book helped me see it's okay to let a man care for me. I've been practicing and it's been life-changing. I feel so much more at peace now.

The geography advice was key. I started going to upscale places and the men I met improved. I met my boyfriend at a hotel lobby. He's everything I wanted. I used to go to cheap bars and wonder why I only met low-effort men. This book taught me to change my environment and it worked immediately.

This book is a thoughtful exploration of dating dynamics. I appreciate the author's directness and the focus on self-worth. However, I think the advice is too black and white. Relationships are more complex than this book suggests. There's room for nuance and individual preferences. Not every woman wants the same thing and not every man fits the same mold. Still, I'm glad I read it and I've recommended it to friends with the caveat that they take what works for them and leave the rest. Some of the principles are genuinely valuable.

This book has been a blessing. I was stuck dating low-effort men. This book showed me nothing was wrong with me. I had the wrong boundaries. Now I've fixed that and I'm attracting much better men.

This book gave me a lot to think about. I agree with the core message about hyper-independence. I'm working on being more receptive. I wish the tone was less aggressive. It feels like the author is yelling. Still worth reading for the insights about male psychology.

I was skeptical at first. I thought this would be anti-feminist. But it's uplifting. It made me see that wanting to be cared for doesn't make me weak. It makes me smart. I let my man provide and he's happier too. I was raised to be independent and never rely on anyone. This book challenged everything I thought I knew. I realized that my hyper-independence was actually keeping me lonely and exhausted. When I started letting my boyfriend take care of things, our relationship transformed. He told me he finally feels like a man. I feel so much more relaxed and cherished. This book gave me permission to want the soft life without feeling guilty about it.

I've never felt so seen. This book understands the modern woman's struggle. It's like the author knows me. The advice is actionable and the results are immediate. I can't thank the author enough. I've already seen changes in how men treat me. They're more respectful and generous. I feel more confident and peaceful in my dating life.

This book is a thought-provoking read. I expected something shallow but the psychology was actually quite deep. The section about the independence trap made me reconsider some of my own patterns. I definitely see value in the core message about letting go of hyper-independence. However, I think the execution is too extreme. Not every relationship needs to follow this exact blueprint. I've been in a happy partnership where we both contribute financially. That said, I think there's a middle ground where women can be independent and still receive from a partner. Worth reading with an open mind.

I'm a high earner and this book nails what men like me want. We don't want a business partner. We want a woman who brings peace. My wife read this and our relationship improved. She finally gets it.

This book is the best dating advice I've read. It's honest and direct. The advice about putting the resume away was key for me. I used to talk about my career too much on dates. Now I focus on connection. The difference is night and day. Men are so much more interested when I'm not trying to impress them with my job.

I was hesitant because of the title. But I'm glad I gave it a chance. This book is actually uplifting. It's not about being submissive. It's about being strategic and knowing your worth. Every woman should read it.

This book is bold and will upset people. But it's honest. I don't agree with everything but I respect the perspective. It gave me a lot to think about. I appreciate the author's directness and the focus on self-worth. However, I think the advice is too black and white. Relationships are more complex than this book suggests. There's room for nuance and individual preferences. Still, I'm glad I read it and I've recommended it to friends with the caveat that they take what works for them and leave the rest.

I was proud of paying my own way. This book showed me that pride was fear. I was scared to depend on anyone. Now I've let my guard down and my boyfriend has stepped up. I'm so thankful. I used to think being independent meant never needing anyone. But that was lonely and exhausting. This book helped me understand that letting someone care for you isn't weakness. It's actually a form of strength and trust. My boyfriend loves taking care of me now. He's so much happier and our relationship is stronger.

This book made me think about my past relationships differently. I've always been the one in control and it's never worked out. Some of the advice makes sense but I'm still not sure about the extreme approach. There's a middle ground I'd like to explore. Good read overall.

I was nervous about the title. But I'm glad I read it. It's not anti-feminist. It's about being smart in dating. I've learned what men actually want and how to attract the right one. I've already seen changes in the men I attract. They're more serious and generous.

I've read this book three times. Each time I learn something new. It's changed how I approach dating. I stopped settling and started attracting the men I want. It's brilliant. I recommend it to every single woman I know. The advice is practical and it works.

I've noticed a difference in how men treat me. I'm more relaxed and they're more generous. The book is aggressive for my taste but the core message is strong. I'll re-read it and take what works for me.

The contrast between the corporate warrior and the soft queen is everything. I used to bring work energy into relationships and it failed. Now I leave that at the door and my relationships are better. This book changed my life. I was so focused on my career and proving myself that I forgot how to be soft and receptive. My relationships suffered because I was always in control mode. This book helped me understand that I can be successful in my career and still be feminine in my relationships. I don't have to choose. I can have both. Since making this shift, my boyfriend has become so much more attentive and generous. He tells me he loves how relaxed I am now. I feel like I finally understand what men want.

This book is a must-read. It's honest and bold and doesn't apologize. I share it with all my girlfriends. The advice about letting men lead is radical. It goes against what we were taught but it works. I've seen such a difference in my relationships since I started following the principles. I feel more confident and peaceful.

I loved the message about not building a man from scratch. That hit home. I've done that before and it failed. I won't settle for a startup man again. I'll wait for a man who's already built his life.

My girlfriend read this book and our relationship transformed. She stopped fighting me on everything and started trusting me to lead. I feel more connected to her. I'm buying her the whole series. This author gets men and women.

I never leave reviews but I had to for this one. I was stuck in the 50/50 trap for years. My relationships failed and I didn't know why. This book showed me the reason. I'm never splitting bills again.

This book is an eye-opener. I've used the principles for two months and I see a big difference. I don't accept low-effort dates anymore. The men who step up are much more attractive. Before this book, I was constantly drained and disappointed by dating. I didn't understand why I kept attracting men who wanted to split everything and put in minimal effort. This book explained everything. I changed my standards, changed my energy, and suddenly the quality of men I meet changed. I've been on some wonderful dates with men who plan everything. I feel so much more confident and peaceful. This book saved my dating life.

I love this book. It's like the author wrote down everything I felt but couldn't say. I didn't want to be independent forever but I felt guilty. This book gave me permission to want more. I'm so thankful.

This is the worst dating advice I've ever read. It says women shouldn't have careers and should just let men provide. What year is this? I've been in a happy relationship where we both contribute equally. This book is designed to make women dependent and insecure. The author clearly has a very narrow view of relationships. Not every woman wants to be dependent on a man. This advice is regressive and harmful. Do not waste your money on this nonsense.

The biology chapter was fascinating. Men provide and women select. Once I accepted that and stopped fighting it, dating got easier. I'm so thankful for this book. It changed how I see relationships.

I've read many dating books and this is the only one that tells the truth. Others say be more independent. This says be more receptive. It's the opposite of what I was taught and it works. I'm happier now. I used to think I had to be strong and never need anyone. That was exhausting and lonely. This book showed me that being soft and receptive is actually more powerful. Men respond so differently when you let them lead. They become more generous, more attentive, and more committed. I've seen this shift in my own life and I can't believe I didn't understand this sooner.

This book surprised me. I expected something shallow but the psychology was solid. The independence trap section made me think. I'll use some of these strategies, though maybe less extreme than the author suggests. I think the core message about letting go of control is valuable. However, some of the financial advice feels too rigid for modern dating. I'm not comfortable with the idea of never splitting bills. But I do agree that women should expect effort and investment from men. Overall it's a thought-provoking read that I'd recommend with some caveats.

This book is brilliant. I love that it doesn't apologize for wanting the soft life. I use the boundaries from the scripting vault and it works. Low-effort men disappear and high-quality men step up.

I was single for three years and this book made it click. I was doing everything wrong. I tried to be the man in the relationship. This book taught me to step into my feminine energy and let men step up. It's been a total shift. I've been on several dates since reading and the men are so much more attentive. They plan real dates and take care of everything. I feel like I finally understand what I was doing wrong.

There are some solid takeaways here but the tone is too extreme. The shut up framing is off-putting. I think there's a middle ground between being loud and completely silent. Good starting point but needs balance.

I've been too independent. This book showed me that was fear, not strength. I'm practicing receiving help and it's hard but worth it. My boyfriend spoils me more now and we feel closer. The soft life is real. I used to think I had to pay my own way and prove I didn't need anyone. Now I see that was pushing away good men. Letting my boyfriend take charge has made him more attentive and loving. It's like something clicked in our relationship. I'm so thankful I found this book when I did. I wish someone had told me this years ago.

As a high-value man, I can say this book is spot on. I want a woman who receives gracefully. The advice about putting the resume away is key. I don't want to hear about salary on a date. This book teaches women what we want. My girlfriend read this and our relationship improved. She finally gets how to let me lead and provide. I'm planning to propose soon. This author understands men and women better than anyone I've seen. The principles are solid and practical.

Finally a book that tells the truth. I was tired of pretending I didn't want a provider. This book gave me permission to want what I want. I stopped splitting bills and the men I attract are better.

I love the soft life concept. The book is well-written and has a strong message. I think the advice is one-dimensional. There's a middle ground between being a warrior and being dependent. The author makes some good points but I wish there was more nuance about different relationship styles. Still, I enjoyed it.

This book changed my life. I felt guilty wanting a man to pay. Now I see that's what men want too. My boyfriend is happier when I let him care for me. I finally figured out the secret.

I bought this book and then bought three more for my friends. Every woman needs to read it. It exposes the lies about independence and shows how to get what we want. My boyfriend now pays for everything and treats me like a queen. I used to think I had to prove myself by splitting bills. Now I see that was my ego getting in the way. This book taught me to receive gracefully and it's been life-changing. I can't recommend this enough to any woman who wants to attract a high-quality man.

This book is terrible. It tells women to stay quiet and let men pay for everything. I'm an attorney who built her career from nothing. This isn't empowerment. It's regression. The author says my independence is a trauma response. That's insulting and out of touch.

This book gave me confidence to demand what I deserve. I stopped settling for men who wanted to split everything. I was upfront about what I wanted. The men who left weren't right anyway. The right man stepped up. I've been dating someone wonderful who takes me to nice restaurants and plans everything. He told me he appreciates that I let him lead. This book was the push I needed to change my approach to dating.

I was doing everything wrong before this book. I tried to prove I didn't need a man. Now I see that's a defense mechanism. I'm letting go of control and it's scary but freeing. My dating life improved a lot.

The independence trauma chapter was a revelation. I never knew my independence was a trauma response. I thought I was just strong. Now I see why I pushed away good men. This book saved my love life. I'm finally learning to receive and it's changing everything.

I love the soft life concept. I'm working on letting go of my independence armor. It's not easy but this book gave me a push. Some strategies feel rigid but the overall message is valuable.

I was looking for love in the wrong places. This book taught me to change my geography. I met my boyfriend within a month. He's everything I wanted. He plans real dates and takes care of me. I'm so thankful. I used to go to cheap bars and wonder why I only met low-effort men. This book explained that I needed to go where high-value men spend their time. I started going to upscale coffee shops and hotel lobbies. Within weeks I met my current boyfriend who treats me like a queen. He plans everything, pays for everything, and makes me feel so safe. I never knew this kind of love was possible.

This was thought-provoking. The startup man trap chapter was real. I've seen that happen. I'm taking the advice seriously. Some financial advice felt extreme but I appreciate the boldness. I think the core message about not building a man from scratch is valuable. I've done that before and it didn't end well. This book gave me the confidence to wait for a man who's already established.

The soft life is real. I thought it was a fantasy but this book showed me how to make it happen. I quit my stressful job and my boyfriend provides for me. I've never been more relaxed or happy. I was working 60 hours a week and constantly exhausted. This book made me realize that I was trading my happiness for a paycheck. I decided to trust my boyfriend and let him take care of things. Now I have time for my hobbies, my health, and our relationship. I feel like a new person. This book literally changed my life.

This book was recommended by a friend. I'm glad I read it but I have mixed feelings. The idea about independence being a trauma response is interesting but it's too simple. Some good points but I disagree with others. Not fully convinced.

I've used the principles for three months and my life is different. I met a wonderful man who treats me like a queen. He pays for everything and plans great dates. I owe it all to this book. Before, I was constantly struggling and unhappy. Now I feel peaceful and cherished. I never knew relationships could be this easy and fulfilling.

This book opened my eyes to some painful truths. I've been hyper-independent for too long. I'm trying to shift but it's hard. The book is good but I wish it was more sensitive to women who are genuinely struggling with the transition.

I was skeptical about hypergamy but this book explains it well. It's not about being a gold digger. It's about natural selection. We choose the best mate. This book showed me how without guilt. I used to feel ashamed about wanting a man who provides. Society made me feel like that was wrong. This book helped me understand that it's completely natural to want a partner who can protect and provide. There's nothing wrong with wanting security. Since reading this book, I've been more confident in my dating choices and I'm attracting much better men. I'm so glad I gave it a chance.

I'm using the principles and I see a shift. Men are more respectful and attentive. I feel more confident. The book is good but can be extreme in places. Still, I recommend it to my friends for the core message.

I tried to use the advice from this book and it didn't feel right. I'm not comfortable never splitting bills. It feels dishonest. I understand the idea but it's not for me. I found some useful points but overall it's not my style. The author makes some valid observations about men wanting to provide, but the execution feels manipulative. I don't think women should have to play games to find love. A healthy relationship should be based on mutual respect, not strategic positioning. I think there's a middle ground that this book completely ignores. Not for me.

I earn good money but I still want a man who provides. This book validated that. It's not about being unable to support myself. It's about wanting a man who wants to support me. I found a man who does that. I'm so happy I read this book.

This was a good starting point. I realized I've been too independent and it pushed men away. I let my boyfriend help more and our relationship improved. Some advice felt harsh but the core message is solid.

I used to argue about splitting bills and felt proud. Now I see that was my ego. This book helped me understand that accepting help isn't weakness. It's strength. My new boyfriend loves taking care of me. I was so resistant to letting anyone help me. I thought I had to prove I could do everything alone. This book showed me that was fear, not strength. When I started letting my boyfriend take care of things, he became so much more invested in our relationship. He plans dates, pays for everything, and makes me feel so safe. I've never been happier in a relationship. This book changed everything for me.

The steps to set standards are gold. I started using them and the men I attract are better. It's like I have a filter. Only good men get through. I've never been happier or more at peace. I used to accept anything and I was always disappointed. Now I have clear boundaries and the right men respect them.

This book is a must-read for single women. I wish I read it years ago. I would have saved time and heartache. It's about knowing your worth and refusing to settle. That's true strength.

My husband noticed a change after I read this book. I stopped being controlling and let him lead. He's happier and our relationship is better. He's more generous and attentive. I was always trying to manage everything and it exhausted both of us. This book showed me how to step back and trust him. When I did, he stepped up in ways I never expected. He plans date nights, takes care of finances, and makes me feel so secure. Our marriage is stronger than ever. I'm so grateful for this book and the shift it created in our relationship.

This book is everything. I recommend it to everyone I know. It's honest and direct and doesn't make you feel bad for wanting the soft life. The advice works. I've already seen results in my dating life. I used to accept low-effort men and wonder why I was unhappy. Now I have standards and the men who step up are so much better. I can't believe I didn't read this sooner.

This book changed my approach to dating. I love how it mixes psychology with practical steps. It's not just theory. It's actual steps you can take. I use the scripting vault and it works. I've never felt more confident. I used to be so anxious on dates, trying to impress men and prove I was worthy. Now I just relax and let them show me who they are. The scripting vault gives me the words to set boundaries without feeling awkward. I've noticed that men respect me so much more when I have clear standards. This book has been a total game-changer for my dating life.