This book is the final piece of the puzzle. I was getting gifts but not real provision. Now I know how to transition to fixed support. The scripts are so natural to use.

Some of the concepts in this book are a bit extreme for my taste. I think there's a middle ground between total provision and splitting everything. But the core message about valuing yourself enough to ask for what you need is important. I'm just not sure I want my relationship to feel like a corporate merger.